Bonnie asked this question on herSpanko Brunch today…
Do you or your partner ever laugh during a spanking session? If so, what prompts it? Do you ever laugh together? Does laughter enhance your spanking experience? If so, in what ways?
Yes! All the time! Since our spankings range from punishment to maintenance to play, there is lots of room for the laughter.
There is nothing even vaguely sexual or humorous about punishment (except long after…but that is a different issue entirely).
Maintenance spankings are a time to ritually use spanking to re-affirm our roles, and they reflect the feelings between us at the time. Often they are playful. The play and banter does not mean I won’t be sore the next day. It also doesn’t mean that while I am OTL and laughing, he is not also laughing and spanking HARD! It is an unusual sensation to be laughing hard and spanked hard at the same time…kinda wonderful, actually!
Grant and I tease each other and enjoy having fun together. We are serious when we need to be, but we love the fun in our lives, marriage and spanking should be fun (at least sometimes!) and we enjoy all that together.
The last category, play spanking…well often we laugh, but sometimes are too busy for even that…if you know what I mean?
Phew. I’m glad someone else laughs!
Absolutely Joanna…one must!